Community Property Divorce – The Basics

We have two different types of Family Law in our country, “Community Property and Equitable Distribution.” These laws provide the basis for which financial settlements in divorce cases are settled, or ordered, so it is important to understand how the specific state law applies to the facts in your case. What States follow the […]
Divorce Series Part 1: Choosing the Style that Fits You

In order to be the best Money Coach possible to my clients, a well-rounded understanding of all milestones you might face is crucial. I’m pleased to say I’m now a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and I am going to share some of the basics to help you start on the right foot if you are […]
Divorce Series Part 3: The 3 Biggest Financial Mistakes You Can Make

The list of potential financial mistakes made while divorcing can be extensive. It is an exhausting, emotional time for everyone. Every money decision is emotional to begin with, and this stress just adds to the mix. Divorce and finances can become complicated and dividing assets can be complex, which is why the finance industry CDFA © designation […]
Divorce Series Part 2: How Can a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Help You?

A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA©) is an industry designated financial expert on helping divorcing couples understand how the financial decisions they make could impact their future. A CDFA is part of the divorce team. Think of the lawyer as the strategist – they are experts on the law and hired to represent your overall interest […]
Divorce Series Part 4: Start 3 Months BEFORE You Start the Divorce Process

divorce is verbalized, the emotional roller coaster begins. Hopefully it doesn’t include the hiding of assets or deceitful misrepresentation. Even if you don’t understand what you’re looking at, finding information can be very helpful for you. Your lawyer and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst will know what to do with it all. See a basic divorce preparation […]
WSJ: When One Spouse Gets an Inheritance, It Can Be Hard on a Marriage

By Cheryl Winokur Munk Sept. 13, 2020 8:32 pm It can be a blessing for a couple when one partner receives an inheritance. But it can also be a curse. While there often is an emotional high that comes with being given money, property or some other valuable asset, inheritances also are associated with legal issues, […]
5 Things You Need To Know To Survive And Thrive After A Divorce

This interview was originally published in Authority Magazine by Kristin Marquet on June 15, 2020. Thank you so much for doing this with us! Can you tell us a story about what brought you to this specific career path? Two “aha” moments led me down this path that chose me. First, when navigating my own […]
Our Guide to Divorce

First: Let’s break it down Divorce is both a transaction and a lifestyle. At dtour.life we will educate you, prepare you and guide you on this journey. We are intent on bridging the gap between the human experience of divorce and the legal system. We want to change the experience for everyone – men, women, […]
Our Divorce Philosophy

It is time to think differently. It is time to act differently. It is time to completely re-write the legacy of divorce. In fact, we hate the word divorce. Instead, we call it a dtour. Actually, we call it dtour.life. I used to sit in the courtroom and watch couples. They would sit on opposite […]
How to Find, Interview and Choose a Lawyer

Over the years, one of the most frequently asked questions is always, “what is the first thing I should do to get ready to begin a divorce process?” In answer to that question, I always like to begin with establishing a healthy mindset so that all action and behaviors are consistent with one question: what […]